PERCEPTION ABOUT BEAUTY

WHAT IS THE REAL BEAUTY?

What is  real beauty? Where does it lie? Many people have different perceptions about beauty. Psychologists define beauty in looks, physical appearance,eyes,lips,curves,figure,symmetry whereas poets define beauty in smile,depth in eyes,modesty in appearance,shyness,etc and etc....the list goes on and on.And well,their way of explaining beauty holds true but up to where? This is the question that each one of us should ask ourselves. Rather than being insecure and complaining about one should understand the meaning of beauty from their own perception.

Well,beauty lies somewhere in the beholder's eyes....Wait!Wait! I am not turning to be a poet. I can just prove it. A tall, dark, handsome guy passes by my side.What do I do? 95% of the time I will not notice him and 5 % of the time I will  say OK!he had something and i move on.The memory will fade with a glimpse of light,so it is worthless to say physical attractiveness is the beauty. But if the guy does something good,like I see him helping someone or I hear him say something that convinces my thoughts, beliefs or he offers me genuine help, then 100% of the time I will remember the guy forever. And that's what's called beholder's eye or one's perception.

Every people have their own taste and preferences in everything even in beauty. Kheer and Khichadi are two totally different cuisine.Some people like Kheer and loathe Khichadi. Likewise, some people are crazy about Khichadi and do not like Kheer. This doesn't mean that Kheer or Khichadi is an awful dish in itself. Both of them are a great dish but people's taste varies. And the same principle applies in beauty may be physical beauty or behavioral beauty.

These days people are just too busy to understand this simple meaning of beauty and put a lot of effort in doing something that never defines them. Being yourself is the first step to being beautiful.And that doesn't mean not being even presentable and keeping up with your bad habits.Changing yourself is good but the change should define you. Trying to be someone else will leave you with nothing but pain, dissatisfaction and  insecurity.

What is our life's ultimate goal? Isn't it to be happy? We run for career, money, and what not but somewhere we forget to be happy. Happiness doesn't lie in achieving fake beauty that doesn't define you. It doesn't even lie in the status or the money you earn. It lies somewhere in something. Our life's ultimate goal is to find out where that somewhere is and what that something is. Trust me happiness lies in seeking happiness. Once we find it, our life maybe just over.

MANUSCRIPTS

ABOUT ME

This is my small world.The world that i live up with.Many things in life aren't shareable with people we know but it doesn't matter if an unknown person would know the story.The irony about life, we have so many people around us yet we are lonely.We are a cheerful and jovial person around everyone but somewhere inside we know that we aren't happy at all. Maybe life is a search, a search for happiness,a search to find out what makes us truly happy and i am all into it. I am in search of my happiness.Someone truly said,"Living for others is easy but it is really a tough task to live for yourself."

Well,when it comes to my real world,i have few countable people i do really care about. It doesn't mean i hate everyone other out there but yes!for these countable people i can do anything.Their happiness is the only thing i preach for because it gives me a separate kind of comfort, a sense of relief.

I've an elder sister Sagun who said that i am lucky enough to have everyone, mom,dad, thulomom, thoulobuba, elder brother, elder sister, younger brother and younger sister. I am the lucky one who can enjoy every single relation in this small world and now i realize what she meant to say then.

When it comes to me,i think i am one of the curious person and i do not have any boundary set up for myself when it comes to learning about things. I am honest enough and dare to speak truth.Well,sometimes circumstances comes where truth can't be revealed and in those times i do not lie but i bent the truth.Sometimes,truth part, as a whole, hurts people and hurting others is not my style.

Talking about my negative aspects, i am impatient and sometimes i tend to be careless.

Well, well, one should not advertise oneself. Its actually people who judge you in different conditions. Everyone out there is good and bad in their own way. But one should always be satisfied with oneself.We should be a good person for our self not for others. At the time when we have to say goodbye to this world, we should have no regrets left and no one should have complaints left for us.